So when you ask that question, trying to ascertain why I have whatever opinion of men as a privileged group, you treat me like a child, you ignore what I have said re: my political reasons for opposing masculinity in a patriarchal society. they aren’t held accountable for harassing women or raping them.
Like men can’t control themselves sexually around women, i.e. These kind of things are rarely said abotu men. Because women are seen as a minority-we’re stereotyped constantly, songs are written about how women is the devil, women is from hell, hell hath no fury, etc. In fact ,in my experience, it tends to be more true of men. Well there’s that, but I think more core to your supposition here is that women are manhaters, that this is a common thing, that there’s many of us out here who was “burned" by an asshole or two and this irrevocably scarred us and made us “shun men.“īut this isn’t true of most women, I can guarantee this. And that plays into the sexist stereotypes about women that we’re inherently emotional, irrational creatures. But you’re acting like I can’t separate my political opinions from my emotional experiences, which isn’t fair. The things is, of COURSE my relationships with people have impacted who I am today.
You should also be critical of why men act the way they do and talk about women the way they do Although you should be asking that question. Idk, do you ever ask men if their attitudes about women have been shaped with THEIR relationships with women? Original, all text version of the ask here.Īh, so now we get the reason behind the question. feminism sexism patriarchy fucknomisconceptions So do many women out there who contribute to patriarchy and kiss up to sexist men or just don’t want to deal with reality. You on the other hand, have lots to gain from believing feminism is bullshit. So why the hell would we be invested in believing in this if it wasn’t true. Meanwhile, we get hate mail, death threats, rape threats, ridicule, mockery, condemnation, violence, and the psychological strain and anxiety for holding feminists beliefs (and confronting people about it). Oh yeah, that’s exactly what you think, because you believe that women overreact to everything and have victim complexes and that feminism is some conspiracy theory bent on ruining men’s lives.īut what’s funny is YOU have TONS to gain from those beliefs, in keeping up the status quo. Like what does a woman have to gain from believing in sexism if it didn’t exist? Like do you think we literally make up little stories we tell ourselves just to get upset over nothing? I like how men think women observe sexism as part of a “confirmation bias” especially when there are women have bought into patriarchal ideas and are anti-feminist?
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